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The central point of all this is, what might be consensual at the time, has the strong potential to be deemed abusive by the girl when she grows up. It's called social conditioning--the girl grows up in a social environment where she is conditioned to be ashamed about her sexual past, and this evolves into an easily visible neurosis that appears to be caused by the sexual acts themselves, but in reality is caused by the shame/guilt she feels , which itself, again, results from her peers' unacceptance of her sexual past; in essence, she grows up in a "toxic social environment", which in some ways forces her to develop unhealthy, neurotic emotional patterns. Were she raised in a non-toxic social environment, where her sexual past was accepted, or even the norm, she would very likely not have developed any neuroses as a result of her experiences. Society is to blame for sexual trauma, in most cases, not sexual acts themselves. |