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So where do we draw the line ? No kissing ? No cuddling No hugging ? If you chose to express love through nonsexual physical affection only, would you be safe ? Or would the Lg still perceive it as sexual? I bet she could. I think every friendship has romantic potential. If this is the case, an innocent gentle caress could be perceived as something sexual. So really the only way to avoid the problem is to stop being around lgs all together. We are all different. Some people just have to jump out of airplanes with parashoots on their backs. Some cannot even take a rollercoaster ride. The same goes for communication. Some people are more physical and/or sexual when communicating. So are Lgs. Is it fair to judge those people ? It is easy to disapprove of parashooting when you have a dislike for it. The same goes for physical/sexual affection. Also, do we have to be so hysterical ? I have heard of several adult/Lg romantic relationships turning out ok- even as the Lgs grow up You know, I bet quite a few here at Girl Chat,over time,have been frightened to such a degree that it is not natural for them to be around Lgs anymore. Sometimes i do wonder if this is the anti-contact peds chief aim. Perhaps they themselves are unable to form romantic friendships with Lgs ? Your post, 28, is quite irrational. You would think prosecuted groups of people would want to instill calmness and peace to their own kind, but this is often not the case. Whys is that ? Easy, they need to release anger. I do not necessarily think this is your intention 28,it is probably well meant, but it can clearly be interpreted that way. IMO GC has developed into a place where most people do not dare to oppose the anti contact peds. We are also stereotyping ourselves to a point which is becomming a bit comical. Today we know that homosexuals are not all feminine and artistic ! But this was the way the homosexual communities labelled themselves in the 70s, and everyone had to conform. We do ourselves a huge disservice stereotyping ourselves the way we do. Additionally I think a lot of people here see it as unsafe to argue towards "pro contact" anyway. Which is sad, because we do not get a balanced picture of the Girl love community! I do not even know wy I am arguing this case. Am I pro or non contact ? Well, there's a lot to concider, and GC is not the forum to do that anymore. We are either perfect Glers or evil egoistic child molesters- huh ?. Let's just leave it at that then! Btw. Despite my view on this topic it is genuinely nice to see you here again 28! You had some interesting opinions.