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victims
Posted by turtle on Wednesday, April 16 2003 at 01:40:18am
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i want to know why when a kid is introduced to sex at an early age he or she automatically becomes a victim. i was "molested" at age 7 by my babysitter and found it an enjoyable encounter. its part of my life and who i am. it doesnt control me,but instead adds to the mix of lifes experiences and makes me a better person in the end. i was smart enough at age 7 to know that what he was doing was "wrong" and he could go to jail. i let him do it. not because i had to. there was no intimidation. he made a suggestion and i agreed. i never told my mom. if we hadnt moved away i prolly would have kept doing it with him for years. there was no guilt. i didnt have nightmares or trouble in school. it was a very special fun secret. i wasnt abused. so why do i read posts by angry "christian" women that go on and on about how sick and evil it is and how their lives were ruined? are you that weak minded? do you have to find someone else to blame for your own personal failures? it was one event,it shouldnt ruin your life. kids in other countries live through much worse. stop whining,and put the blame where it belongs:on your own shoulders. sex is a beautiful thing and only becomes perverted when you decide that it is perverted. i dont condone forced rape,but all other sexual activity is NORMAL,regardless of age,sex,race,or culture. people like to elevate themselves and pretend they are so smart and righteous,but 3 points must be made here.
1)you are still part of the animal kingdom and have basic biological urges,so deal with it.
2)consensual sex CAN come from someone under the age of 18
3)there are several passages in the bible where god tells us to love one another,to enjoy life,and to multiply....
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